By Deni Kirkova. From playing by The Rules to Bridget Jones' obsession with appearing to be an 'aloof, unavailable ice queen', lots of relationship advice for women seems to hark back to yok hard to. Now one relationship expert has come up with yet another take on this concept: treating your partner like a puppy.
Remember the unconditional love and attention you get from a devoted hound?
Well, life coach Sloan Sheridan-Williams suggests that we can get the same from our partners - by training them as you would a puppy. Scroll down for video. Sloan says you should reward good behaviour and ignore bad behaviour with your partner, as with your dog. While Sloan recommends drawing upon traditional puppy psychology, she doesn't suggest women should literally treat their men the same way they do their dogs.
She says don't offer your partner everything on a plate or they will never learn how to appreciate you. With a puppy you very soon realise they do not know how to regulate their eating, playtime hours or even their behaviour towards other dogs. Just as you wouldn't put a whole bag of dog food out and allow a puppy to decide how much to eat or not, don't offer your partner everything on Newport massage center mountlake terrace plate.
Puppies are taught early on they have to earn respect and rewards by good behaviour. Using the same logic, if you give your other half everything they want without them earning it, they will never learn how to regulate their wants and desires and therefore, they will never learn how to appreciate you. Every dog owner knows that feeling when their puppy is off the lead and running towards a squirrel or worse still a busy road and our instinct is to run towards.
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However the experienced dog owner knows that catching their dog's attention then running the other way is far more likely to get your puppy to start chasing you. In relationships the same applies, chasing your partner, checking up on them or making them feel that you are always there is going to inevitably push your partner away or at the very least create complacency in. Apply puppy psychology by creating scarcity. Moving away from Harlow sex sex partner when yoy pull away, be it in the form of catching up with friends or finding a new hobby, enables yoy to come running back to you.
With puppies we don't give mixed messages, we clearly say no when we mean no and we clearly show them what makes us happy and what does not work for us. Communicating your wants and needs clearly to your other half in the way you do to a puppy helps you draw boundaries as to what you will and won't tolerate.
It is unfair to expect your partner to read between the lines so be clear, concise and logical in your requests for the best outcome. When training a puppy most dog owners will tell you punishment doesn't work.
The only way is to reward good behaviour and ignore bad behaviour.
The ethos here is to forgive and forget but do not tolerate. It is important to be compassionate but don't be a pushover. The first step is to find out what your Free furniture Ashford considers a reward and then come up with a plan to deliver it in a timely fashion immediately after the positive act.
The final step is rightt decide which behaviours elicit a reward.
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